Things Not to Do to Get Your Girl Back From Another Guy

Now, I'm not going to tell you to be mean to your ex-girlfriend, or any girl anywhere. But one of the most common mistakes a lot of guys make is being too "nice". You've probably heard that. It's common, because we're raised to believe that being nice is the way to get people to like us. It's the OPPOSITE in real life; we respect people who are strong and self-respecting, not wimpy pushovers who do everything other people want them to.

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It's the same for your girl. If she sees you being too "nice" (as in, doing everything she wants), she'll be repulsed. To get her back into your arms from another guy, she has to see that you are independent, that you care about yourself and your own interests, and that you respect yourself equally with other people.

So, don't be "nice" too much.

Another thing you should never do when you want to get your girl back from another guy is to convince her, or try to be logical about it. Women do not see things logically; they see things with their emotions. That's why they're commonly drawn to "bad boys" or jerks who give them an emotional rollercoaster ride, and then leave.

Even if you're the nicest guy around, loaded with money, and have great looks or even skills in bed, she won't care if you don't appeal to her EMOTIONS, not her logic.

Finally, do not shower her with gifts or flowers when you try to get her back from another guy. You need to actually break away from her for a time. Tell her you understand why you had to break up, and that the space will be a good chance for you to breathe for a little while. She will respect you a lot more for that than for flowers. Flowers just say "I'm desperate! Take me back!" and that is a turnoff to a girl.

Learn the exact steps to get your girl back from another guy