First what you'll need to do is get a piece of paper. You're going to be writing a letter. It needs to be a letter, not an email or a phone call. You need her to read your thoughts on words, not anywhere else. This is an important first step in how to get your girl back from another guy.
So you'll write this letter, explaining that you understand why she wanted to call off your relationship. You're not going to apologize, but you need to communicate to her that you enjoyed your time together, and you're grateful for what she gave you.
By doing this, you are proving to her that you are a mature, kind man, and that you are not desperate. You're letting her know that you're able to withstand losing her even though it is hard - breakups are hard. But she will respect you more for this; it's just a basic facet of human nature to respect people who take the high road.
In your letter, you should thank her, and you should keep it short. Don't go on and on about everything you love about her, but just be simple and straightforward in your thoughts. Avoid the negative, and focus on the positive. This letter is going to cement the framework for your next interactions with her which will hopefully be positive.
Once you've finished your letter, send it to her.
i used this letter..it worked...they also coach on this with the zoomonkey system for getting your ex back a zoomonkey.com. -john
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