FAST Way to Get Your Ex Back

FAST Way to Get Your Ex Back
The FAST Way to Get Your Ex Back

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

A Key Part of Keeping Your Ex Girlfriend Once You Get Her Back

The process to get your ex girlfriend back from another guy is extremely important, but once you hook her interest again, the work isn't over. You are going to have to retrain your thinking about relationships and women in general, a little bit, in order to keep your relationship with the girl in a better place.
One thing that leads to stale, boring relationships (and in many cases, your girlfriend heading off to find someone new) is the human doormat principle. I know, because I've played this role plenty of times and until I learned just what I was doing wrong, I could not keep a girlfriend to save my life.
Girls do not want a MEAN guy, but they want a guy who will stand up for himself. And don't confuse standing up for yourself with being mean, because they're different. Standing up for yourself is something that springs out of self-respect and confidence (two extremely attractive attributes). Meanness is something that occurs out of fear and anger (two unattractive attributes).
So out of fear that we will be MEAN, we consequently let the girl make all the decisions and just agree with everything she says and does. She wants to go to a restaurant? We let her decide which one to go to and don't express our own opinion because we're afraid to piss her off. She isn't in the mood tonight? That's fine; we don't want to express the dissatisfaction of not having a sexual relationship because we'll start a fight, and she will leave.
Well, I'm here to tell you that you need to start expressing your wants and needs in the relationship NOW. This is what your ex girlfriend will respect you for. You need to start making some decisions. You pick where to eat, then tell her where you're going and she'll come along. You decide what you do with your time, and when you have sex. This confidence and authority will not drive her away – it will excite her! Consequently you will both be happier when you get back together.
However, there is a specific process to get back your ex girlfriend when she has left you for another guy, and one that in many cases is extremely successful. Of course every situation is different, but nine times out of ten, if you simply follow the correct process by initiating contact, and saying the right words, you will be able to get your ex girlfriend back even if she is with some other guy.