FAST Way to Get Your Ex Back

FAST Way to Get Your Ex Back
The FAST Way to Get Your Ex Back

Sunday, March 6, 2011

How to Get Your Girl Back From Another Guy

If your girl has dumped you for another guy, you might be feeling like it’s the end of the world. Believe me, I know exactly how you feel, as I too have been in that situation many times. After time and again getting dumped by girls I really cared about, I decided it was time to figure out what I was going wrong - and how to get them back from these other guys they seemed to like better.

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The first key to learn how to get your girl back from another guy:

Stop trying

Yes, I know this one doesn’t make much sense, but the truth is, trying to get her to come back to you is only going to push her away. If she’s hooked up with another guy, it’s not necessarily because he was cooler than you. She might just be looking for excitement that you’re not giving her, which leads us to the second key...

Focus on yourself

Often when relationships go bad, it’s because one partner becomes too dependent on the other for happiness. Clinginess drives people away. You might have been getting too clingy and not even realized it. The truth is that there’s a strong biological urge in all human beings, male and female, to be drawn to independent people. If you wanted to hang out with her too much, or felt like all your happiness was derived from her, then you probably drove her away without realizing it.

The way to fix this is to focus on your own wants, your own needs, and your own interests. And then, she will naturally come back to you because you are an interesting guy who clearly knows what he wants and you aren’t afraid to pursue it.

Listen to her, but don’t push her

Right after she’s broken up with you for another guy, you are going to have to take the hardest step: let her go. Let her hang out with the other guy, or do whatever she wants. Do not let her know you’re jealous or upset over it, no matter what.

Yes, you’ll be feeling that way, but you can’t clue her in to that fact. You need the space to focus on yourself, not your feelings of jealousy over another guy. Her relationship with anyone else is beyond your control. You need to get away from things you can’t control, because they will only make you more frustrated and angry.

Eventually when she sees that you have become that strong, interesting guy that she was drawn to in the first place, she will be intrigued, and naturally be drawn to you once more.

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